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Mark’s Memorial and Poem: Everyday Magic, Day 39

Updated: Sep 27, 2023


That led to one of the potlucks of all potlucks, a whole lot of visiting inside and out morphing into the concert performed by the Alferd Packer Memorial String Band (for those of you unfamiliar with its name, Packer was the only man in U.S. history accused of cannibalism, simply because he ate a bunch of Democrats, already dead, while snowed in on a remote mountain pass in 1870).


Today I wake up sore by waltzing in heels with Ken (I wore the heels, he’s already

Conversations With Mark

My self will be the plain,

wise as winter is gray,

pure as cold posts go

pacing toward what I know.

— William Stafford

1.

Say, did you travel far enough west to see who lives

in the vacant houses? Did you stop for a lunch of apricots

and hard luck? Was it raining all the way, a panorama

just before and after the storm at once? Are your dead

friends within earshot? Is there much of a climb to get to the next

large rock with a view, and does your knee still hurt? Did you stop

being afraid in a darkness glowing like polished lapis?

When you close your eyes, are you still alive?

2.

In the still air right before the front arrives, I listen for you

but can’t make anything out. I remember the camp at

Tuttle Creek, how cold the water was, and how we all brought

the same jugs of apple juice on sale at the co-op.

When the edge darkened and spread over us, you sang,

always so much louder than you spoke. “Home on the Range”

turned to “Oh, What a Beautiful Morning,” and when the sun

blanched the ground back to August, we washed the dishes,

our stomachs full of Mike’s pancakes. I was 22, you were 50,

and this was just the second of dozens of such weekends, the rain always

near or upon us, the circle small or large as we stood

near a make-shift kitchen, holding hands, calling out our crow

song that perched us together — “Kaw! Kaw! Kaw!” —

your voice a river of tone, hunger, surprise and earnestness.

3.

Your garage held old paint cans, foam mats for a bed, a used

boxspring, three broken wooden chairs, a child’s metal pail,

my bike, an old refrigerator, an uncle’s disregard, a corner

of despair with a high wide shelf of joy, several coffeemakers

which may or may not work so well, a tin box of buttons,

six large boxes full of very slim jeans and t-shirts left over

from the dorm runs, your father’s silence, a plastic eagle clock,

empty jars good for canning, whatever your mother said to you

that did such damage, snow tires no one uses anymore, the miles

between you and your young man self, a computer monitor

from 1991, a Thanksgiving platter with a slim crack,

a broken heart behind some boards, still ticking, still yours.

4.

Mark is on our front porch, leading on the railing,

talking cattle with Gary. Mark’s plate is on the shelf.

Mark walks toward 8th Street from the library, thinking

the rain will hold off a few more minutes. Mark gets into

the backseat of the big gas-guzzler, six of us with plenty

of legroom as we head toward Vancouver. Mark’s letter

is in the paper again. The phone rings at the wrong time,

and it’s Mark. Mark is sitting on the ground with us

beside Castle Rock in autumn. Mark is climbing onto

the train, heading west. Mark’s postcard just arrived —

having a great time in San Francisco. Mark is back

for another party, carrying a paper bag of lettuce

and three half-empty bottles of dressing. It’s Mark’s turn

in the circle, and sitting on the couch, he tells us it’s time

to listen to each other. Then pauses. We lean into

the center just a little, listen to one another breathe

and the wall of cicada wave after wave enclosing us.

5.

The horizon fools me, seems to be an ending

or beginning, when really it’s not even a line

across sky or time. I listen in the space between

grasshoppers and birds, air-conditioner on,

air-conditioner off. Something will come

as it always does, deaths will be sudden or not,

and that will seem to matter because my mind thinks

“horizon” while the round earth thinks “breathe.”

Mark is around the bend. No matter, the conversation

goes on. The clouds build in the west, storm or

fall apart. The end of summer leans into us in such a way

we cannot imagine ourselves outside of it. When

I open the door to go outside, a moth flies out, not in.

A hackberry butterfly, weeks behind the others, lands

on my chest, and the cottonwood leaves, the cicadas,

the blue heat of this moment all keeps breathing,

each moment pacing toward what we know

because of you, without you, with you.

Photos: (from top) Mike talking with Kelly & Frank; Eric, Ken & Forest; Danny, Daniel and Anne (Mark’s niece); two sisters — Ann & Jean; Jerry & friend; three KAW gals — LaVetta, Caryn & Joy

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